At some point in our lives, all of us men probably find ourselves wishing we knew how to pick up women quickly and easily – and without embarrassment or that horrible feeling of rejection that most of us are so well acquainted with. First off, it’s time to stop worrying about your skills, or lack thereof! The fact is, 99% of all men have absolutely no clue about how to pick up women – and most of those find women terrifyingly unapproachable.
It’s time to become part of the minority, and leave your competition in the dust – time to learn a new skill that will only serve you more as you move through life. It’s really not that hard; in fact, all it takes is a little bit of patience. Here are three tips for picking up women, that you can’t live without.
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Step One: Don’t Fish With the Competition
Imagine that you are a fisherman, after a trophy. Would you troll the same waters as the rest of those anglers, hoping against hope to pick up that one worthwhile fish that’s swimming below the traffic jam of boats overhead?
Absolutely not! Instead of making the mistake of hitting the bars and clubs where all your competition is, head for uncharted waters – book stores, libraries, coffee bars, and other places where women hang out.
Why? When you try to pick up women in areas where they’re hit on constantly, they’ve got their radar on high alert. They’re just waiting for the next lame pickup line, ready to knock men they deem unworthy of their attention down a notch or two. If you meet women in places where they are not in a state of overcautious watchfulness, your chances of success increase dramatically.
Step Two: Use Trust and Confidence Builders
How can you build trust without being completely obvious? How do you get things started, without being slapped with a put down, or being met with a withering glance that could stop Superman in his tracks? Easy. Build trust before you move in.
Just as the best fishermen use lures that look like the real thing, you’ve got to do this in a genuine way. Let’s imagine that you are sitting in a coffee shop, making good use of free Wi-fi – an excellent strategy, by the way, because women love to do this. Grab a seat near a woman who looks like a good prospect, and after a short time, ask her to keep an eye on your laptop while you make a quick trip outside to use the phone (you’re exhibiting good manners with this move, too!).
When you come back, thank her and try to start an easygoing conversation. Now that she has already helped you out, she will be much more likely to want to talk.
Step Three: Leave her Hanging
Just as when you close a sale with something tantalizing, you’ll want to close this scenario effectively. Pay close attention to this step, because it effectively does the following:
- Communicates to her that you have a life
- Shows her that you’re an in demand person
- Makes you more intriguing
- Proves that you are not needy, clingy, or just hoping for a quick pickup
- Almost Guarantees you a date
What is it? It’s a tactic that leaves her intrigued and wanting more: Pretend you got a text from a friend or business associate, (set your alarm for a certain time, to just buzz once, if you can), or say you’ve got to go to a meeting. “I have to go now, but I’m enjoying our conversation. What are you doing at this time tomorrow (or whenever)?”
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While nothing is one hundred percent effective, one hundred percent of the time, this is one of the best three step strategies any guy can use to pick up women. Try it out, practice a few times, and soon enough, you’ll be busy every night of the week.
