Every guy needs to know how to flirt with women; and, more importantly, he needs to know how to do so effectively. Are you tired of being shot down, and sick of the withering glances you might get when you try those old, tired, flirting maneuvers? In that case, read on. You’re about to get a surprise!
What Not to Do
“Come Here Often?” “Buy You a Drink?” “Are You From Around Here?”
What a bunch of pathetic one-liners! Unless a woman is completely bored with the company she’s keeping, or in a bind herself, she is not likely to respond well to these worn out lines only losers use.
So, stop staring at your shoes, and learn what really works.
Learn EXACTLY HOW to flirt with women in a way that invariably gets 'results'!
Lose the Nice Guy Act
Women want to feel excited, just like we do. They also want to feel safe, happy, and secure. They want to know that they can trust you with their feelings, and they want to feel as though they can enjoy themselves when they’re around you. If you are trying too hard to put on the “I’m a nice guy” act, then they’re going to see right through you.
This being said, you don’t want to be a reprehensible jerk, either. You want to be firm and well-spoken. You don’t want to be a doormat.
Unpredictability is Exciting
If you were watching a movie, and you knew exactly what was going to happen in the next scene, or at the end of the film, you would probably stop watching, right? While you do not want to be completely unpredictable or outright irresponsible, you do want to maintain a slight air of mystery, even if you are involved in a relationship and have been for a while. You don’t want to be boring, same-old same old, or stale. Don’t use the same moves all the time, don’t stick to an overly predictable routine, and don’t lay all your plans on the line. At the same time, you should show up when you say you will, and you should be sure to include some fun surprises!
Set yourself apart from the crowd. Keep things interesting. And whatever you do, don’t fall into a boring routine! You’ll be more mysterious and exciting, which will keep her guessing and prevent her from falling into a rut, herself.
Teasing Goes a Long Way
When a woman tries to control you by insisting that you look and act a certain way, or when she tries to test you by insisting that it’s her way or the highway, do the unexpected. Tease her, gently, and with genuine humor. Do not fall into the trap of arguing with her; or, even worse, caving in to her crazy demands.
Learn EXACTLY HOW to flirt with women in a way that invariably gets 'results'!
Yes, relationships are based on give and take, and while she might be right about a lot of things, she should never try to control every aspect of your life or your relationship. So be funny about it, and give her a bit of a hard time for her bossy attitude. Once you do this, you’ll find that you have gained her respect and admiration, and that she is more excited than ever to be with you. After all, isn’t that what it’s all about?
While these are simple tips, they really do work. So, give them a try and watch your life change, for the better!
